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Foreword
Introduction
Acknowledgments
Part One, Life Cycle
1. Self and Other
Self-Sacrifice
Moving Away from the Self-Sacrifice Paradigm
Embracing the Whole Self
Conclusion
2. Fertility
Generational Attitudes: The Early Years
Reproductive Choice and the Ability to Care for Children
Conflicting Messages
Personal Choice and Partnership with God
Miscarriage
Infertility
Conclusion
3. Singlehood
Widowed
Divorced
Never-Married
Toward Flexibility
The Teachings of Chieko Okazaki
Conclusion
4. Motherhood
Eve and Role Models
Don’t Think for Me—Trust Me to do the Right Thing
When is the Grass Greener?
Mothers and Their Daughters
Father and Mother Know Best
Where Are We Now?
5. Adversity
Death and Illness
Crises of Faith, Identity, Disaffection and Abuse
Part Two, Life as a Latter-day Saint
6. Womanliness
The Physical (Action-Oriented) Attributes of Mormon Womanhood
The Spiritual Attributes of Mormon Womanhood
Conclusion
7. Callings
8. Revelation
Conversations with God
Agency
Women’s Lives
Trusting Self, Trusting Others
Conclusion
9. Missions
The Evangelizing Responsibilities of Mormon Women
Evangelizing the Broader Community
Full-time Missionary Services
Mormon Women as Full-time Missionaries
LDS Female Missionary Service, a Tradition of Optionality
Varieties of Female Missionary Experience
Missionary Children
Recipes for Success
A Source of Anxiety: Children Outside the Missionary Pattern
Conclusion
Part Three, Relationships with the Institutional Church
10. Agency
Introduction
Agency
Reconceptualizing Agency
Latter-day Saint Agency
Ethnographic Particularities
Practicing Agency
Authorizing Agency
11. Patriarchy
Internal Conceptions of Men’s Priesthood Roles and Women’s Roles
External Action When Disagreeing With Male Leadership
Conclusion
12. Relief Society
What Daughters in My Kingdom Reveals about the LDS Relief Society of Today
Chapter 8 “Blessings of the Priesthood for All: An Inseparable Connection with the Priesthood”
Chapter 9 “Guardians of the Hearth”: Establishing, Nurturing and Defending the Family
13. Heavenly Mother
General Patterns in the Oral Histories
Patterns Unique to Mormonism
Attitudes toward Heavenly Mother
Conclusion
14. Proposition 8
Background on Defense of Marriage Propositions
Respondents from Oral Histories
Neither Yes Nor No on Prop 8
Final Words
Contributors
Further Reading
Index