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為何父母越完美，孩子越痛苦？：化擔憂為信任的教養之道 (腦神經科學家及教養諮詢專家 成田奈緒子): : ElisaElisa 1963 200520092014 2013 3
作者: 成田奈緒子 | 譯者: 陳聖怡
當媽媽不在時才肯動手畫畫的天才小畫家、
每天都把媽媽愛心便當倒掉的資優高中生、
罹患飲食障礙的小學生……
這些孩子為何更常出現在父母百般呵護、力求完美的家庭？
育兒是一趟化擔憂為信任的旅程，本書讓我深感共鳴。——諾貝爾獎科學家山中伸彌
★親子教養類第一名！日本亞馬遜總榜百大暢銷書。讀者盛讚：「觀點深刻，讓我了解到自己的教養盲點。」
★前所未有的主題！不只有學歷迷思，或本身高學歷的父母，凡關心教育者必讀！
★專業推薦：Elisa／「博士媽媽Elisa聊教育」版主 陳志恆 ／諮商心理師、暢銷作家 陳其正（醜爸）／親職教育推廣人 蔡宜芳／諮商心理師 蔡淇華／台中市立惠文高中圖書館主任
為什麼父母這麼努力，還是在教養路上屢屢挫敗？
為什麼在乎孩子課業的父母，容易養出「啃老族」「繭居族」？
為什麼學歷越高的父母，往往會越孤獨？
作者身兼腦神經科學家及教養諮詢專家，發現有越來越多高學歷、或有學歷迷思的父母前來求助，他們百般呵護、為孩子提供最好的資源，但親子的衝突並未減少，反而問題層出不窮。
過度擔憂、干涉、溺愛，是許多現代父母易犯的教養錯誤。無法全心信賴孩子、想要孩子完成自己未達成的夢想或成就……最後只能哀嘆：「為什麼這孩子會長成這副德性呢？我都已經幫他這麼多了。」
用具體案例說明父母的盲點，提供實際解方！
作者在書中舉出各種教養困境實例，說明只要改變觀點，問題都會出現驚人的改變！
．要常對零歲幼兒說話
．在培養智能腦和心智腦前，先培養體能腦
．有比學才藝更重要的事
．比起自誇，多說自己的蠢事，更有助於孩子自我肯定
．孩子沒有叛逆期才需要當心
．無法信賴孩子的三個原因
．學歷迷思父母的「雪恥型育兒」
．金錢觀偏差的高學歷父母
每天都把媽媽愛心便當倒掉的資優高中生、
罹患飲食障礙的小學生……
這些孩子為何更常出現在父母百般呵護、力求完美的家庭？
育兒是一趟化擔憂為信任的旅程，本書讓我深感共鳴。——諾貝爾獎科學家山中伸彌
★親子教養類第一名！日本亞馬遜總榜百大暢銷書。讀者盛讚：「觀點深刻，讓我了解到自己的教養盲點。」
★前所未有的主題！不只有學歷迷思，或本身高學歷的父母，凡關心教育者必讀！
★專業推薦：Elisa／「博士媽媽Elisa聊教育」版主 陳志恆 ／諮商心理師、暢銷作家 陳其正（醜爸）／親職教育推廣人 蔡宜芳／諮商心理師 蔡淇華／台中市立惠文高中圖書館主任
為什麼父母這麼努力，還是在教養路上屢屢挫敗？
為什麼在乎孩子課業的父母，容易養出「啃老族」「繭居族」？
為什麼學歷越高的父母，往往會越孤獨？
作者身兼腦神經科學家及教養諮詢專家，發現有越來越多高學歷、或有學歷迷思的父母前來求助，他們百般呵護、為孩子提供最好的資源，但親子的衝突並未減少，反而問題層出不窮。
過度擔憂、干涉、溺愛，是許多現代父母易犯的教養錯誤。無法全心信賴孩子、想要孩子完成自己未達成的夢想或成就……最後只能哀嘆：「為什麼這孩子會長成這副德性呢？我都已經幫他這麼多了。」
用具體案例說明父母的盲點，提供實際解方！
作者在書中舉出各種教養困境實例，說明只要改變觀點，問題都會出現驚人的改變！
．要常對零歲幼兒說話
．在培養智能腦和心智腦前，先培養體能腦
．有比學才藝更重要的事
．比起自誇，多說自己的蠢事，更有助於孩子自我肯定
．孩子沒有叛逆期才需要當心
．無法信賴孩子的三個原因
．學歷迷思父母的「雪恥型育兒」
．金錢觀偏差的高學歷父母
作者
成田奈緒子
1963年出生於日本仙台市。神戶大學醫學系畢業，醫學博士。在聖路易斯華盛頓大學醫學院、獨協醫科大學和筑波大學基礎醫學系學習後，於 2005年成為文教大學教育學部特殊需求教育副教授，並在2009年起擔任教授。自2014年起，擔任育兒支援計畫「育科軸心」的代表。前作《山中教授與同窗兒童神經學家同學談論育兒》與山中伸彌教授合著，成為暢銷書並引爆熱門話題。
譯者
陳聖怡
曾留學東京。享受有日文的生活。2013年開始踏入譯界，熱愛筆譯。
譯作已逾百冊，包括《腸理》《睡前3分鐘超感謝筆記》《基本設計力》《箱庭世界史》等。
1963年出生於日本仙台市。神戶大學醫學系畢業，醫學博士。在聖路易斯華盛頓大學醫學院、獨協醫科大學和筑波大學基礎醫學系學習後，於 2005年成為文教大學教育學部特殊需求教育副教授，並在2009年起擔任教授。自2014年起，擔任育兒支援計畫「育科軸心」的代表。前作《山中教授與同窗兒童神經學家同學談論育兒》與山中伸彌教授合著，成為暢銷書並引爆熱門話題。
譯者
陳聖怡
曾留學東京。享受有日文的生活。2013年開始踏入譯界，熱愛筆譯。
譯作已逾百冊，包括《腸理》《睡前3分鐘超感謝筆記》《基本設計力》《箱庭世界史》等。
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