The Unquiet Country
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The Unquiet Country

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The Unquiet CountryA brazenly ambitious debut it feels almost too much sometimes, like art or love, or both of them, if we are really lucky, sometimes do. Rebecca Brown, author of You Tell the Stories You Need To Believe and The Gifts of the Body. The Unquiet Country is a conspiracy against time. Hovering between history and longing, disease and inspiration, nourishment and craving, Patrick Milian shows us what music can do to the room, the ruin, the body of sound

A brazenly ambitious debut— it feels almost too much sometimes, like art or love, or both of them, if we are really lucky, sometimes do.
— Rebecca Brown, author of You Tell the Stories You Need To Believe  and The Gifts of the Body. 

The Unquiet Country is a conspiracy against time. Hovering between history and longing, disease and inspiration, nourishment and craving, Patrick Milian shows us what music can do to the room, the ruin, the body of sound suspended inside breath.
— Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore, author of Touching the Art.

With tender restraint and formal dexterity, Patrick Milian has built a world of language set to music, language tuned to a music of its own. This striking debut offers precise inquiries into history and aesthetics, surviving and suffering; above all, it claims fragility as strategy, performance, and a way through.
— Erin Marie Lynch, author of Removal Acts.

Named one of the "Best Books out of the PNW in 2024" by Seattle's The Stranger!!!

The Unquiet Country is a book of kinship— the legacies we inherit, the self we create and reflect, and ultimately, queer belonging and respect.

In this hybrid debut, Patrick Milian explores the lives of Nadia Boulanger (1887–1979), arguably the most important composition pedagogue of the twentieth century, and her sister Lili Boulanger (1893 –1918), a brilliant composer who died young. Revealing his status as HIV+, he eruditely considers camp, the femme fragile, and the transformative nature of illness as the lives of these remarkable sisters and their music intertwine with his own history and voice.

The Unquiet Country includes an audio download of music commissioned from Emerson Eads and Milian reading the book in its entirety.


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We post selections from our books on SoundCloud, but a full reading of The Unquiet Country and the complete set of music from Emerson Eads to download can be found on our audio page.

Arresting poetry and truly beautiful music . . . in ‘A Prime Number of Lines for Lili & Nadia Boulanger’, Bach-prelude-like beginnings go on strange and enchanting voyages, and creativity burns in percussive dissonances and shifting meters. The second song for Raïssa Boulanger is a wide-ranging dirge of immense power.
– Susan Youens, author of Hugo Wolf: The Vocal Music and Retracing a Winter’s Journey: Franz Schubert’s “Winterreise”.


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The Family Systems approach makes a great deal of sense and is very helpful. But this book seems to be somewhat formulaic - every case looks the same.
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Extremely enlightening!
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A psychologist recommended I read this book as my daughter and I were having issues. Wow! What you'll find in this book will change your whole thinking about relationships with family members. Very enlightening as to why we all behave as we do and what affect our behavior has on the development of our children. A MUST read for every parent. I bought a copy for each of our children and grandchildren to read.
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Some good advice
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Roberta Gilbert's "Extraordinary Relationships" offers useful advice for dealing with family relationships couched amidst an examination of systems theory. Although it is more technical than a lot of self help, it can be used by a general audience. Gilbert examines the theory of Murray Bowen, who countered notions of individual psychology (like those of Freud) with the theory that personality develops as a result of a family unit. The nuclear family, like a herd of amimals, reacts against each other, speaking a common language that is known only to them. Children raised in that family then detach from the family to form their own adult relationships, where dynamics may follow the family system. In order to heal adult problems, the author offers some practical advice, like taking the time to observe old patterns as they crop up (family Christmas fights come to mind) with the dispassionate mind of an observer. The author states that individuals will better be able to understand family dynamics and their role in them by doing this. I've read this book twice, and it has helped me better understand my family, and my role within it. I would recommend it for those who are seeking to better understand their family of origin, and what they can do to improve their present life through understanding the past.
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Good book
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Buen libro
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