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Desire & Erotic Identity - Online Event

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Desire & Erotic Identity - Online EventUnderstanding what turns us on, and why Sunday 26th April 7pm GMT. Duration approx. 90 minutes with Q&A. Most of us can describe what we're drawn to long before we can explain why. A particular dynamic, a fantasy that keeps returning, a role that feels oddly like home. These patterns rarely arrive by accident. They are shaped by what we have lived through, what we have absorbed, and what we have given ourselves permission to want. This session is a

Understanding what turns us on, and why

Sunday 26th April - 7pm GMT. Duration approx. 90 minutes with Q&A.

Most of us can describe what we're drawn to long before we can explain why. A particular dynamic, a fantasy that keeps returning, a role that feels oddly like home. These patterns rarely arrive by accident. They are shaped by what we have lived through, what we have absorbed, and what we have given ourselves permission to want.

This session is a conversation about what sits underneath all of that. Kilter founder Lydia Coulter and sexologist and kink educator Georgie Blewett spend an hour thinking carefully about desire: where it comes from, how it shifts over time, and why certain currents pull harder than others.

We'll talk about the psychology of dominance and submission, and why power turns up so often in our erotic lives. We'll look at how erotic identity forms and changes, and at the way shame, curiosity, and permission tend to sit closer together than we might expect.

This isn't a session about technique or getting it right. This is a space to understand the internal architecture beneath what turns you on, and to take your own desire seriously as something worth examining.

You'll leave with a clearer read of your own preferences, some language for things that may have felt wordless until now, and a more honest sense of how your desire has been shaped, and where it might be asking to go next.

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This event will be hosted online with dial in details sent 3 hours before the event via email to the same email address used to purchase a ticket.

Please have a journal or something to write on with you.

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★★★★★ 5
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This is an enjoyable, lightweight story, perfect for middle school students. The child I bought it for is from a different culture than that depicted, and for her it was a bridge-builder in terms of helping to find commonalities and differences. It was a fun experience--effortless learning, the best kind! For others, it may be useful to see themselves reflected in the young heroine, but I can't speak to whether they will find the mirror accurate. For my reader, the conflict felt real and relatable - who hasn't experienced feeling different and excluded? And she was captured beginning to end.
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M. Tanenbaum
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★★★★★ 5
excellent middle-grade novel
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enjoyable cozy urban fantasy
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